Un-writing Love's Myths.

A session for collapsing your projections and seeing your lovers for who they really are

$138

So much of our heartache is rooted in the fact that we cannot see each other for who we are.

We cast our lovers in the roles we want them to play, and resentment builds when they fall short. 

We never get to really see them.

We gaze at them through the lens of archetype and character, filling in blanks from our wounded childhoods and fairy-tale conditioning until our lover is worlds apart from the image we have constructed of them.

And still, we never get to really see them.

In this session, we will be going into ceremony to excavate, interrogate, and finally collapse entirely the projections you have created around your lover. 

The lens of habitual archetype, trigger, wounding, and unfulfilled desires-made-living-myths will be removed, letting you finally see your lover for the gloriousness that they really are.

Note: this is a high risk, high reward situation. Once projections have collapsed, there are usually only one of two outcomes.

Either your relationship deepens dramatically, because your love is now based on the actual humanity of the person in front of you (not a projection-based story you have been living into)...

...or you will recognise that your relationship needs to radically change in some way so as to honour the true eros and aliveness of both of you.

This session will be especially helpful for you if...

- you are currently undergoing a major live transition / upheaval

- you're feeling perpetually abandoned, resentful, or dry in love

- your romantic relationships always seem to follow the same predictable pattern

- you have a tendency towards obsessive, limerence-based love

- you regularly experience feelings of intense jealousy or possessiveness over your lover

- you find yourself constantly poring over the tiniest details and measuring them against an arbitrary checklist of "worthiness"... to both yours, and your lover's detrimentyou know you love your lover deeply, but the relationship has been going on for so long now that it's starting to feel stale on the surface

This session is for you if you are willing and excited to become an active participant in the myth-making you weave with your lover.

This session will not be useful if you are expecting a magick quick fix, or if you desire to be only a passive recipient. 

All sessions are approximately 45-90 minutes long (depending on what's uncovered), and they are held on zoom. 

Please note here that I'm not a licensed mental health professional, and I can't address concerns or issues that are better suited to psychiatry. See my full code of ethics, policies, and disclaimers here.

Once you've booked, I'll be in touch within 24-48 hours to schedule your session.